Love ... Sometimes it seems to us that we know everything about this feeling and have already “eaten the dog” in the love field. That's only when she arrives, people get lost and do not know what to do. Well, if love is mutual, and if not? And in that, and in another case, you can briefly forget about emotions and turn to science.
Yes, scientists have tried to explain even such a sublime and romantic feeling. True, it took them more than one hundred years to do this. However, they have not yet been able to solve the secret of love, but nevertheless they have achieved some success. Thanks to science, we can find answers to many questions.
It doesn't matter if you are in love at the moment or not, this information will be useful to everyone. In our article, we will talk about the most interesting facts about love. Let's get started.
10. Lovers are drawn to sweets
Lovers eat more sweet than everyone else, children do not count. Unfortunately, scientists do not yet understand what this is connected with. There is a version that they spend much more energy, and the easiest way to make up for it is to eat something sweet.
The leader among the goodies is chocolate. By the way, when it is used, the substance phenylethylamine is produced, which contributes to the manifestation of emotions, such as sympathy and attraction. If the object of sympathy does not pay attention to you, try treating it with chocolate.
9. Girls are more likely to have a serious long-term relationship
There are a lot of articles on the Internet on the topic: "How to understand that he is serious?". Girls are ready to study them carefully, just to find the answer to the most important question. Now imagine a man who asks the search engine the question: "How serious are her intentions?". Funny and unrealistic picture.
No matter how trite it may sound, but men are polygamous by nature. The task of the males is to fertilize as many females as possible. Women dream a little about something else - family, children. There are many other reasons: reluctance to change a lifestyle, fear of responsibility.
An important aspect is age. A man will be able to start a family at the age of 50, and a woman will have a “ticking watch”, her reproductive function becomes weaker from year to year. Therefore, in most cases, a man will think: "I still have time", And will go look for a new" victim. "
8. Women who prefer romance are more open and amorous.
If a girl likes to read romance novels, she is open to communication with the opposite sex. She easily falls in love and makes contact. Everything is simple here, those who lack real feelings are read in novels.
A woman may not even be free, but she will easily make contact with a man who will somehow resemble the next Luis Alberto or a knight of the Middle Ages.
Again, reading novels can be dangerous. Real men are not at all like book heroes, and a woman, thanks to books, will have her own vision of an ideal partner.
7. Acquaintance in an extreme situation increases the chances of a happy long relationship
According to studies, meeting in an emergency is likely to end in a happy ending. People who find themselves together in adverse conditions quickly find a common language. Joint experience of extreme extremes brings together, thanks to the impact of the risk factor.
It is not necessary to wait for a natural disaster or set fire to a house to find the man of your dreams. You can jump with a parachute or go surfing.
6. There is an assumption that love lasts no more than 3 years
The truthLove lasts three years"Everyone heard. Is this statement true? If we consider love as a biological process, yes. Scientists suggest recalling our distant ancestors. They created couples, gave birth to a child. At that time, one parent could not provide the child with everything necessary. It was necessary to get food, to protect it from wild animals. After three years, the child became more independent, the man and woman could leave, because the feelings gradually faded away.
Nature has provided for everything - leaving a family is much more difficult than breaking a bored relationship. Of course, under the influence of evolution in the world, everything has changed, but look at others, and you will understand that the truth works.
Lovers who are not in a hurry with marriage and having children, enjoy each other, etc., after a while they part. Feelings have passed, and nothing else binds them.
Do not forget that there are several stages of love, it is different. Passion and emotions will be replaced by respect and warmth. True, for this you will have to work on your relationship.
5. At the subconscious level, we choose an object of love, similar to a parent
There is an opinion that everyone chooses a partner that looks like a parent, sister, brother and other relatives. This phenomenon can be explained by the fact that everyone, without exception, likes familiar things.
From the point of view of biology, people consider their genes to be the best, but there is no need to talk about communication with relatives. There is only one way out - to look for a partner with similar genes. Not the last role is played by psychological aspects, for example, problems in relations with parents, difficult childhood.
It is difficult to get rid of the usual patterns of behavior that children have been watching for years. Having matured, they transfer them to their family life.
4. The myth is widespread that one of the partners always loves more than the other
One of the partners loves more ... This myth has become widespread, but love is either there or not. It is created by people who agree to a relationship without feeling.
The reasons can be different: fear of loneliness, material gain, etc. The result is a couple in which one of the partners experiences sincere feelings, and the second pretends to be. He never loved this man. People in love will never even think of measuring their love and calculating who is more and who is less.
3. To fall in love, 4 minutes is enough
The second time to make a first impression does not work. Each of us has only 4 minutes to please the object of sympathy.. An important role is played by the timbre of the voice, the position of the body.
The choice of a partner takes place on an unconscious level. Even appearance in this matter is not so important. Of course, there are exceptions to the rules. Sometimes novels happen between people who have known each other for decades.
2. In China, the symbol of love is maple leaf
In China and other Asian countries, maple leaf is a symbol of love.. It testifies to a pleasant event in human life - falling in love. That is why tattoos in the form of a maple leaf are very popular. This image in ancient times adorned the beds of residents of China and Japan.
1. Men often fall in love with appearance
Millions of people around the world are arguing about what is more important - external or internal beauty. Yes, a kind heart and a light character are a big advantage, but first of all, men pay attention to appearance.
If you don’t look like Angelina Jolie, don’t be upset. The girl should be primarily well-groomed, radiate femininity. For this, it is not necessary to have model parameters. The main thing is to be able to emphasize your strengths and hide weaknesses. Manicure, makeup, hairstyle, beautiful dress ... Any woman will look good if she takes care of herself. And men ... They can’t be fixed. For them, love and sexual interest are equivalent concepts.
Interesting fact: an experiment was conducted in America. The young man and the girl registered on dating sites, where they put their best photos. They went on dates in costumes that mimic overweight. Guys, seeing instead of a slender beauty, a full girl, immediately ran away. Representatives of the weaker sex gave the “fat girl” a chance, they talked and did not take flight at the first opportunity.