A few dozen years ago, the wedding was considered a must. The bride and groom did not even think about this issue, the holiday was celebrated in any case.
Now the attitude towards the wedding has changed a bit. More and more newlyweds refuse a magnificent celebration, preferring to celebrate this event in a narrow circle.
Again, there are many who want to have a grand holiday. The newlyweds are ready for anything to fulfill their dream and arrange a magnificent and pathos ceremony. Well, if they can afford to pay all the whims.
Unfortunately, many get into debt and take out loans just to celebrate the wedding properly. If you are also thinking about this issue, read our article.
Below are 10 reasons not to have a big and noisy wedding. You will understand that there is no need for extra spending and you can arrange a modest holiday that will be remembered for a lifetime.
10. Romance
There is nothing romantic about organizing a wedding. The bride and groom will have to solve many questions: find a suitable restaurant, host, photographer, print invitations ...
The list can be continued for a long time, but you probably realized that the future husband and wife in this situation is not at all romantic. Often in the process of preparing for the wedding, disputes and disagreements arise between them.
None of this will happen if you have a celebration for two. You can go to another country and hold a wedding ceremony there. You will remember such a holiday for the rest of your life.
If in the future you regret that you do not have photos in a wedding dress and a limousine, you can arrange a grand anniversary celebration.
9. A variety of styles
If 10 people are invited to the wedding, it is easy to make it memorable. You can take into account the interests of all guests, come up with interesting outfits. It all depends on your imagination. Pirate, oriental, denim, retro wedding. There are a lot of ideas. Think about which one impresses you the most.
It remains to choose costumes, stock up with props. The advantage of such a wedding is that you can arrange a unique celebration and at the same time not spend a large amount of money. If you come up with something unusual, the whole city will talk about your wedding.
On the contrary, if many guests are invited to your wedding, it is unlikely that they will all agree to dress in the proposed style. If you are throwing about a thematic wedding, call the closest ones who will support any of your starting.
8. Your own holiday
Agree, if you gather only the closest people for the holiday, the atmosphere will be much more friendly. Guests are familiar with each other, they feel relaxed. You also do not have to adapt to the invitees, be nervous and worry.
You can celebrate the wedding anywhere: on the beach, in the apartment, in the country, in a cafe. The bride and groom have to think not only about their comfort, but also about the convenience of the guests, choose what is suitable for everyone.
For example, you like climbing. You could celebrate a wedding on top of some mountain. That's just a good half of your relatives will not agree to such an experiment. This is your holiday, mark it the way you want.
7. Profitability
Wedding is a very expensive event. That is why most newlyweds refuse a magnificent celebration. If you cannot afford to pay for the holiday, then you should not even think about it.
Do not take loans, do not borrow from friends. Let your holiday be modest, but you can make it sincere and memorable.
If you have a small amount, it is better to spend it on a romantic trip or other necessary needs.
Moreover, you should not think about a wedding if you do not have your own home. Do not expect guests to compensate for the value of the celebration with gifts. Unfortunately, weddings rarely pay off.
6. Atmosphere
It was already noted above that the atmosphere at a small wedding is more friendly. Indeed, if all relatives are invited to the event, half of whom you do not know, as well as the “necessary” people and friends of friends, you will have the feeling that you are walking on someone else's holiday.
The wedding turns into a show where the bride and groom smile stiffly and kiss under the cries of a large number of guests. Invite only those who are dear to you. Why do you need these gatherings of strangers?
5. A big wedding is old-fashioned
Yes, once the newlyweds were required to play a wedding. Those who deviated from tradition were the subject of discussion and condemnation. Currently, such prejudices no longer exist.
To celebrate a wedding or not is a private matter for everyone. At the peak of popularity, small parties. Do not try to take not quantity, take quality.
It is not necessary to rent a cafe, invite a hundred or two guests. It is better to spend a holiday on a boat or a cozy recreation center.
4. Turnkey parties
If you have no time to engage in your own wedding, entrust it to professionals. Contact the agency, tell the specialist what kind of wedding you are dreaming of. To organize a small celebration is much simpler and cheaper.
Agency employees will take on all the responsibilities for preparing for the holiday. You don’t have to make an effort. But toastmaster services can be refused.
If there are funny and creative people among your friends, they will willingly agree to replace the host.
3. No script
If you’ve always dreamed of photographs by the window, of a ransom and a loaf, choose a traditional wedding. If you don’t want to follow the scenario of millions of weddings, choose a small celebration.
A wedding day is usually scheduled in minutes. First registration, then a photo shoot, walks around the city. The newlyweds are very tired, and the guests at this time do not know what to do.
Spend this day the way you want. Let there be no loaf and banal competitions at your wedding, arrange an original holiday that is not like other weddings.
2. No restrictions
A magnificent celebration provides for the observance of traditions. The bride must be in a white dress, the groom in a suit, the car is decorated with balls and rings.
A small wedding is a holiday without limits. You can come to check-in in jeans, choose a bicycle or a motorcycle as a transport. This option is suitable for you if you and your friends have hobbies together.
Football, Argentinean dances, computer games - you can choose any topic and organize a holiday in accordance with it.
1. No problem
You probably already understood that a magnificent celebration is a huge work. Preparing for the wedding is carried out at least six months in advance, especially if you decided to play a wedding in the summer. A cafe or restaurant needs to be booked in advance.
You need to find a car, buy outfits, send out invitations, choose a menu. Newlyweds usually do not enjoy the holiday, but worry about every little thing.
Organize a small wedding. If there are few guests, you can relax, you will feel calm, you can enjoy the holiday, without any extra problems and worries.