At the beginning of the relationship, the partners dissolve in each other, they do not need anyone, they forget about friends and hobbies. After some time, the passions decrease a little, the lovers have other desires, except to sit in an embrace and look at the stars.
They begin to meet friends more often, spending time separately. This is quite normal, do not think that the relationship is coming to naught.
Each person needs their own space. If men are calm about this, then women are not satisfied with this state of affairs. They do not understand why a man should rest from his family, from his wife, they are afraid of losing him.
The biggest female mistake is to limit your man, trying to push him into the framework. Most likely, he will not survive and will run away at the first opportunity. Do not keep your husband on a “short leash”.
Below is the rating of things in which a wise woman will give a man freedom.
10. Training
If your man likes to play sports, but you do not, do not try to change his point of view. Do not say that you will love his extra pounds, and the big belly looks very seductive.
Do not be fooled, you really don’t care about your husband’s weight. You just don't want him to go to the gym. Of course, if you argue from such a position, the biggest problem in the simulator is the sports beauties who are able to take your beloved man away.
Even if you love sports and go to the same fitness club, do not force your partner to accompany you at every training session. Let your man play sports calmly without being distracted by you. Give him that opportunity.
9. Time for self-education
It’s not easy for people who have different goals in life to be together. If your man seeks to build a successful career, and gives a lot of free time to self-education, do not cut it. This is for your own good.
No matter who you are, a successful woman or a housewife, support him. Understand that this is important to him. If you are depressed by the idea that a man, instead of watching a movie or taking a walk in the park, reading smart books or watching online courses, reconsider his views on life.
Use your free time wisely. Engage in self-education. If you do not want to bother with economics or advertising technologies, pay attention to the problems of female energy, work on your inner strength. Then the thought of closing her husband at home will go by the wayside.
8. Go to a party
If most women can let their beloved go to workout, then there can be no talk of a party. His friends, alcohol and beautiful women will be there!
If you do not trust your man, then normal relations can not be considered. Do you trust? Let go. No scandals, reproaches and tantrums. Do not ask him to take you with him. Most likely, this is not possible. You do not drag your man to a corporate party or a bachelorette party.
Nevertheless, letting her husband go to a party is half the battle, the main thing is to give him a normal rest. Do not call him every 15 minutes, do not send disturbing messages and do not come if your husband has not picked up the phone for "as long as half an hour."
7. Drink after work
No need to be indignant, this is a normal male desire. Of course, provided that it does not occur every weekend. If a man today chose friends, beer and dried roach, and you were counting on a romantic dinner with champagne, do not be discouraged. He also has the right to rest.
Let him relax in the company of men, keep a secret with friends. After all, you also like to pack up with friends for a cup of tea or a glass of martini. And do not forget about rule number 2: do not bother him to relax, do not disturb with calls and messages.
6. Hobby time
If a man in his free time decided to go in for his hobby, a woman puffs out lips. “Is this passion more dear to me than him?” She begins to worry. Recognized yourself? Drive these thoughts away.
To make it easier, also start a hobby. People who have no hobbies live a fresh, uninteresting life. Work, home, sofa, TV, internet. Everyone needs an activity for the soul. Let your chosen one engage in his favorite hobby. Perhaps in the future, a hobby will grow into the business of his whole life.
5. Weekend Holidays
Do not express your dissatisfaction if the man is going to spend the weekend separately from you. Periodically you need to rest from each other.
In addition, this is a great opportunity to do those things to which hands did not reach. You can start a general cleaning or go shopping, go shopping all day, and have dinner with friends in the evening.
Your husband will have a good time in the company of friends or relatives, will receive new impressions. He will return home satisfied and rested, you will have new topics for conversation. Maybe you even have time to get bored.
4. To be alone
There are times in life when you don’t want to see anyone. If your husband tells you that he wants to be alone with himself, do not torment him with questions. Of course, you are very worried and cannot leave him alone with problems, but when he wants to, he will certainly tell you about the troubles that have occurred.
Many women take everything at their own expense. When the husband is upset and does not want to talk, it seems to them that they made a mistake. They begin to find out what’s the matter, adding new problems to her husband.
Leave him alone, even if the chosen one does not ask you about it. If you see that your husband is not in good spirits, do not start conversations and, especially, do not try to find out the relationship.
3. To sit late
This man is not your son, do not rush to put him to bed. He is no longer a small child who needs to be controlled. Perhaps you do not like that the husband lays down later than you, but let him do what he sees fit.
If he wants to watch a movie or complete an important project, let him do it. Do not scold him if he bothers you.
Unfortunately, no matter how quietly the husband behaves, the wife will wake up anyway and give him a portion of the negative. A woman can also be understood, it is not very pleasant when they interfere with sleep. Again, if you also like to stay up late, you may soon find yourself in the place of your husband.
2. Time with family
Never limit his communication with relatives. If a man goes to his parents, brothers, sisters, let him go without hesitation. There are different situations, do not be offended if you are not invited. Maybe they need to discuss important issues that you don't need to know about.
Do not interfere if the husband has decided to help parents with money or deeds. Think that you are facing a difficult choice. Do not forget that between you and your parents, he will most likely choose them.
1. Chatting with friends
Friendship is an important component in the life of every person. Let your man to meet friends, do not try to interfere with their communication. Surely he knows his friends since childhood and will not listen to your opinion on this issue.
If you strongly dislike his friends, do not try to quarrel them. Accept them for who they are. You would also not like it if your husband spoke unflattering about your girlfriends.
Your beloved will meet with his friends, discuss political issues, cars, women, weather, gas prices. And then he will return home in complete confidence that he got the best and most understanding woman in the world.