Most of us know how destructive a bad person can be in our lives. Of course, such unambiguous concepts as “bad” and “good” should not be guided by the assessment of this or that person who met on our way.
However, there are people who, for certain reasons, have a set of negative qualities that can very negatively affect both his own life and the lives of those around him.
Therefore, it is so important that our friends, colleagues, neighbors are people who make positive changes in our lives with positive energy.
We present 10 signs that indicate that the person you are communicating with is bad.
10. Lack of compassion
Perhaps it is the ability to compassion that distinguishes the human primacy from the highly developed personality, who was conceived as the "crown of the universe."
Compassion, mercy, and pity may be experienced by human beings for whom the word “conscience” is not obsolete archaism.
9. Lies for nothing
This person may not cheat in order to confuse you. Perhaps he does not have any evil intentions against you, but he is lying on trifles and this is very noticeable.
He tells fables that a person can believe in with an extreme degree of mental retardation, embellishes reality, “plays” with facts and dates from his biography as he pleases.
Why is he doing this? Most likely, just out of habit. And most importantly - he does not even notice that he is a generator of continuous lies, which has become an integral part of his conscious life.
Beware of such people, because they are inexhaustible sources of negative energy.
8. You are uncomfortable in his company
Pay attention to your emotional state after talking with a person. If after talking with someone you feel irritated or depressed and cannot give a rational explanation for this, then most likely you are dealing with a bad person.
7. Indifference to the problems of others
It is said that selfishness is the father of all vices. When a person sees only himself around, he is unlikely to be bothered by other people's problems.
He can call himself your friend, lay out all his ins and outs from the moment of conception to the present moment, and if you want to share something secret with him, then he will quickly lose interest in this conversation or transfer it back to himself.
Such a person can be safely called an energy vampire: he uses his friends as a waste bin. He happily whitens his problems, as if shifting some of them onto your shoulders, while your life and your condition do not care at all.
Such people need not only to be held “outstretched arm”, but also not to be allowed into a cannon shot.
6. Makes you please
Probably something similar happened to each of us at least once. A friend tells you that he can’t find the application or document that he needs right now.
And now you are already trying to solve his problem, lie there just to improve the situation. Time passes, and again he runs to you asking for help. For the third time, he already takes your participation for granted, and you one day understand that this person, once using your kindheartedness, simply “sat on your head”.
Such individuals are not able to adequately respond to the good services rendered to them. Such noble gestures awaken in them a base desire to use a good person as an object for manipulation.
Be vigilant and do not fall prey to such games.
5. Makes you defend
Even a child knows that the best defense is an attack. Some people have mastered the art of manipulation so masterfully that it will not be easy for you to immediately recognize them.
In this case, you need to listen to your feelings, if during a conversation with him you constantly feel the need to make excuses, then you should know that this type is just a dirty manipulator that plays on your sense of duty for the sake of your own goals.
Remember, a person who forces you to use defensive tactics in a conversation all the time will negatively affect your life.
4. Requires a special attitude to yourself
People of this type are accustomed to accept the generous condescension addressed to them by some kind-hearted person as something for granted.
They expect that their work will be accepted, with a bunch of errors or later than the deadline. It seems to them that standing in line is below their dignity, and the interlocutor can pay for dinner. If you are dealing with this type, then very soon you will turn into a cash cow for him.
3. boasts
Mentioning one’s talents and merits is appropriate only at the interview. In all other cases, this is nothing more than posturing or banal boasting, which is usually supported not by real facts from the biography, but by intense imagination and the desire to pass off wishful thinking.
Therefore, if someone suddenly begins to praise yourself and wait for you to start singing along with him, try to stay away from such a person.
Typically, such persons try to do everything possible to lower the self-esteem of their interlocutor below a critical level, in order to look more profitable against his background.
2. Constantly complaining
One of the most energetically “heavy” people is the eternal whiners. Yes, life is complicated and sometimes each of us has a need for someone to sympathize with us.
But when it turns into a lifestyle, then the person becomes simply unbearable for others, and his complaints about life begin to cause not pity, but irritation.
Of course, the position of the eternal sacrifice is convenient enough, because it helps to put pressure on impressionable persons and thus manipulate them. But if you become one of those whose close circle includes people with a similar psychology, you will very soon notice that you have become the same professional pessimist.
Therefore, if someone starts communicating with you from a series of complaints, think about whether you need to see this person in your inner circle. After all, his infinite discontent with reality can negatively affect your life.
1. Talking badly about someone behind him.
Gossips are one of the most disgusting categories of people. Such people need regular “rinsing of someone else’s laundry” like a phone in recharging. Without fresh gossip for breakfast, they cannot feel full.
Communicating with gossips is not only unpleasant, but also fraught with the fact that he will say the same thing about you behind your back. Communicating with him, you risk falling under the influence of powerful destructive energy.