Almost every girl had a situation when she needed to get rid of an annoying fan. Although the woman herself is not only not like it, but annoying.
Would anyone be pleased if they follow him everywhere and impose their communication? So women don’t like it. I want men to begin to respect the personal boundaries of women. And they remembered once and for all that the word "no" means the word "no." But not yes. You need to teach not women to refuse annoying fans, but fans - to understand the first time that a specific woman is not interested in communicating with him.
10. Lay out the truth
The simplest thing that can be done to get rid of the annoying gentleman is to tell him the truth in person that communication with him is unpleasant for you. You do not need to invent stories that you have a boyfriend or husband, you do not have time for relationships and other reasons. Speak directly that the person is not in your taste and you do not want to continue to get to know him. Of course, in a rough form this should not be done. But if the guy did not understand the first time, then there is no other choice. To tell the truth is the most correct way to get rid of annoying attention.
9. Do not respond to provocations
If you don’t like the person, do not give him your phone number, contacts from social networks and other means by which you can be contacted. If you gave a phone number, then naturally the guy will think that you are interested in him. And if at first glance you realized that this is not so, there is no need to give hope to a person. Do not settle for repeated meetings. In general, do not do everything that can create the impression that you like a guy and you are ready to continue communication.
8. Ignore
Another way to get rid of a guy is to ignore him. Do not answer calls or messages. And if it so happened that you answered - answer with monosyllabic sentences and stop the conversation as soon as possible. Do not settle for meetings. If the man is adequate, then after that he will understand that you are not interested in communicating with him and will cease to pester you. Behave as cold and aloof as possible. Do not flirt or flirt if you want the man to leave you alone as quickly as possible. Ignoring is one of the most effective ways to make it clear that a man is not interesting to you and you do not intend to continue getting to know him.
7. REGISTRY OFFICE
An extraordinary, but effective method to send off an annoying guy. The main thing is to first make sure that he himself does not intend to start a serious relationship. REGISTRY OFFICE - that’s what will help you. Talk about the wedding all the time. Say how you want to get married, give birth to a bunch of children and die with your husband on the same day. Behave as inappropriate and obsessed with the wedding as possible. Even a serious guy should be confused. All your conversations should be reduced to a marriage ceremony. And even if all this is not true, you need to convince the man that in your head there are only thoughts about the next wedding. And he, just the right candidate for the role of your husband and father of children.
6. Show bad habits
Bad habits are not only smoking and alcohol. You can put up with this (if you do not abuse alcohol). You can, of course, have a drink at every meeting to show your problem. But you want to get rid of the guy, and not spoil your liver. Therefore, this option is not worth considering. You can use sloppiness as bad habits (do not clean the house for a couple of days or create a mess specially). In general, you can invent anything you want. Open the space of your imagination. She will help you get rid of annoying attention once and for all.
5. Refuse tokens
Some women, even if they do not like the man, accept gifts and other tokens from them. And what is strange is if after that the man thinks that you like him. And you just amuse your vanity. That's just because of these girls, guys think that “no” means “yes” and you need to be even more persistent. Therefore, in order not to create problems for yourself in the future, refuse any gifts and do not accept courtship. And the signs of attention on the part of men simply ignore. Sooner or later, the guy will understand that with you he has no chance.
4. More naughty
No one likes moody people. If you want a man to leave you alone, act up as much as possible. Imagine yourself a little girl and act up with all your heart. As much as you want. Such behavior will quickly bore anyone, even the most persistent fan. Cry, throw tantrums, if something goes wrong as you want. Advice, of course, is not the best, but if nothing else helps, you need to go to extreme measures. If the guy doesn’t understand your refusal, then get the hell out of it. After all, it is not your fault. This is his problem.
3. Invite him to shop
If you love shopping, you can go shopping for hours. And if you don’t love, you will have to endure at least one day. Call your obsessive shopping fan. Let shopping last more than one hour, let it take all day. It’s not necessary to buy something. Just go from one store to another and complain about how you don't like everything and you have nothing to choose. It will tire any person, and he certainly will not want to contact you. The longer you drag the guy around with you, the more you will annoy him. And maybe he will finally understand that you are out of the way.
2. Criticize
Few people like criticism, especially if this criticism is unfounded and rude. You need to resort to this method in an extreme case, if nothing else helps, and you can not get rid of attention that irritates you. Criticize everything: clothes, hair, any actions and deeds. Criticize everything you see. Do not hide your irritation and make it clear that further will only get worse. And the guy is better off behind you now than to continue further acquaintance. Not the best method, but if a person does not understand you and nothing else remains, you can resort to it.
1. Take a closer look
When a guy gives you all kinds of signs of attention and continues to communicate with you even despite your refusal, take a closer look at him. Of course, it is important to look at actions and his attitude towards you. If you see that for a man you are just a trophy, then use any methods to send him away. And if a guy respects you, sees you as a person, and you are really interesting first of all as a person, why not try to chat with him. Even if nothing works out for you, you can find a good friend in the face of the former admirer. Above all, be honest with yourself and with him.