Normal relations between a man and a woman bring both happiness and positive emotions. Below is a list of signs that a man is destroying you.
10. Blames his failures
If the chosen one accuses you of all his failures, it looks rather strange. Think for yourself how you can relate to problems at work, a broken car, a quarrel with friends. Of course, he will try to convince you of this. You yourself believe that if you had not advised him to get a job, he would have long been a millionaire. The car breaks down the moment you approach it. Well, friends constantly quarrel with him because of you. Do not believe his words. Some girls are so blinded by love that they begin to blame themselves for the failure of men. Gradually, they develop an inferiority complex. Everything is simple. Your man does not want to take responsibility. He does not want to work on himself, to solve his problems on his own. It’s much easier to find the one to blame.
9. Forbidden to see friends
He does not want to chat with your friends. Moreover, he forbids you to see them. He dreams that you should sit at home, treating your friends with contempt. Your chosen one is the owner. He does not think that you need communication. If you agree to everything for his sake, think about whether you are ready to live like that for 5 years, and 10? Sooner or later you will want to chat about feminine with girls, sit in a cafe, go shopping. But there will be no one else, all your friends will disappear. A situation may arise that you will be left alone. He will leave you or something else will happen. So, you don’t even have anyone to cry in a vest. Each person needs communication with people close to him, love cannot replace friendships.
8. Waiting for humility
If your man is prone to psychological abuse, he will expect humility from you. He is sure that there is no other such person in the world, and you will obey him implicitly. You can fool others with stories about how your chosen one is powerful and powerful, that he thinks about you and cares. That is why he controls every step you take so that nothing bad happens to you. But you cannot fool yourself. After all, you understand that he goes too far, demanding unconditional obedience.
7. Offends
Many men allow themselves to treat a woman in this way. In a fit of quarrel, he calls you ugly words, a humiliating nickname has "stuck" to you for a long time. You have not been a hare for a long time, but a bedside table or skeleton. A man knows your weaknesses, tries to hurt more painfully. You understand what purpose he pursues. He wants to offend, point you to your place. He is trying to impose on you the idea that you are a rather mediocre person. In such a situation, even if a woman tries to change the situation, the man will reassure her. He will explain that she reacts too sharply to his words and that it is easier to relate to everything. But she understands that she did not deserve such a humiliating treatment.
6. Punishes if gone somewhere without his consent
Such a man does not like when his woman spends time in the company of other people. If she went to a meeting without receiving his permission, most likely a scandal awaits her at home. He will insult, shout at her, some use physical force. So he punishes her for disobedience. There is another scenario. Instead of a scandal, he will arrange a boycott for her, will not talk and generally at least somehow react to her. If a woman has feelings for this man, everything will end with an apology on her part and promises not to go anywhere without his permission. If you recognize yourself in this situation, think - why do you need it? After all, you are not a child, and he is not your dad. You yourself are free to choose with whom and how to spend time.
5. Use alcohol or drugs.
If your chosen one uses alcohol or drugs, it is dangerous to be near him. In moments of intoxication, he cannot control himself; it is not known what will come to his mind. Anyway, a woman who lives next to an alcoholic or drug addict, most likely, will not be happy. You hope that someday he will take up the mind, this can be expected for a very long time. But never wait. Your life will be destroyed next to him. In addition, some women, under the influence of a loved one, also begin to get involved in alcohol and drugs.
4. Intimidates
Next to a real man, a woman feels like behind a stone wall. She is full of love and tenderness. But it happens when a partner inspires fear only. He can beat, threaten, threaten reprisal with your loved ones. Such a relationship will not bring happiness, you will be near him only because of fear. But constantly living in fear is very difficult. But this is your life, you have one. Running it in fear is not a good idea. Therefore, from such a tyrant you need to run away without looking back.
3. Painfully jealous
He is jealous of you for every pillar, but instead of being wary, you quietly rejoice: “He loves”. Perhaps at the beginning of the relationship, such his behavior will even flatter you. But over time, you will realize how hard it is to live with an overly jealous partner. Your every appearance in the world will be accompanied by quarrels. Then he will begin to control your actions, check your phone, and again and again make scandals. If a man is confident in himself, he will not arrange scenes of jealousy. He will trust you. Therefore, if you do not want to live like a powder keg, not knowing at what point he will lose his temper again, feel free to end the relationship. Do not risk your nerves and health.
2. Excessively in control
Your man does not give you a step to step without his permission. He controls you in everything. While this suits you. But you can’t live like that. He psychologically destroys you day after day, and you allow. Soon you will become a limp doll, unable to make decisions. But very often a woman takes total control over the manifestation of care and love. More often, she deceives herself with fairy tales that he will change his mind. In normal relations, partners trust each other, do not arrange checks and do not report for each step.
1. Applies physical force
This is the worst thing in a relationship that can happen between a man and a woman. He is able to hit you, regularly pogroms the apartment, so why are you still with him? This can’t be tolerated even if the day after the scandal he floods you with gifts and flowers. Think about your own safety. At the time of aggression, he may not calculate strength and kill you. And if you have children, then take care of their psyche. Better they grow up without a father than they see such a relationship.
Remember, every woman deserves love and respect. And if your man has at least one of these signs, think about whether you need him.