There are many girls who, having just met a man, already choose a wedding dress. There are several ways to help you test his feelings.
10. Rate the look
Pay attention to his gaze. He constantly admires you, stares at you. He seems to be in love. Do not hurry. A man in love often looks in the eye. His gaze is filled with tenderness. So look at a priceless treasure. When a man looks mainly at a figure, chest or lips, he is not configured for a serious relationship. This is just a flirt. The lover is distinguished by dilated pupils and the duration of contact. Don Juan will look you in the eye only during his own monologues, so he evaluates whether you fell for his tricks. When you start talking, he looks out the window, his eyes begin to "run."
9. Does it make surprises?
A loving man wants to please you, surprise you. He is ready to make surprises. These are not necessarily expensive gifts, weekend trips to Paris. He sends you flowers to work, in the evening your favorite cakes are brought to your home, he fills you with romantic messages, organizes your holiday. Well, of course, he is in love. A man who is not set up for a serious relationship is unlikely to be so bothered. You, of course, can count on a gorgeous bouquet and gifts. But there are no surprises in this situation. On the contrary, he will strongly emphasize that he spent money on you.
8. Contacting you
Remember what a new friend calls you. If addressed by name, then perhaps the guy is in love. Maybe you don’t like it, you don’t perceive your name as something intimate, and you think that it could be more affectionate to you. You will be surprised, but he wants to repeat your name. It is sweeter for him than honey. A diminutive form is also suitable. But if he calls you, then pussy, then bunny, think about whether he remembers your name. Such affectionate nicknames are called by her numerous girls, Lovelace. They do this so as not to be misled by a mistake with the name. After all, there are many admirers, each name cannot be remembered, and if you remember, it is easy to make a mistake. The lover will also use affectionate nicknames, but they will be very personal.
7. Who is the first to try to reconcile after a quarrel?
You quarreled, but no one wants to go to the world. And once again you, scolding yourself, go to bow. Apologize for having offended you. Yes, however, you are always to blame for everything. It does not matter a major quarrel, or a dispute over trifles, your man takes a proud look, is offended and does not accept your apology the first time. This means that he does not need you, he amuses his vanity. Maybe you shouldn’t humiliate yourself, but is it better to find another candidate? In normal relations, the partners are equal, the initiative for reconciliation should come from both. If your partner offended you and asks for forgiveness, do not make yourself a snow queen, forgive him. This, of course, does not apply to serious issues, such as treason or insult.
6. How willing to give in?
A loving man is always ready to make concessions. He will take into account your opinion, it means a lot to him. But be prepared for the fact that your man will not agree with you on all issues. An adequate partner will consult, take note, but do as he sees fit. You still think that if he loves, let him fulfill all your whims and do as you want. Then imagine a husband who looks in your mouth, cannot solve a single question on his own, relies on you in everything. Most likely, such a man will not suit any woman, he is not suitable for creating a family and belongs to the category of “sissies”.
5. Jealousy
Your partner is jealous of you absolutely to everyone, you joyfully rub your hands: “Loves”. Is not a fact. Of course, there is a certain relationship between love and jealousy. Your man wants you to belong only to him. But there are cases of pathological jealousy that have nothing to do with love. A man can be married, in addition to his wife he has a lot of lovers and girlfriends, and he will demand fidelity from all. Or it may be a loser who decides to assert himself at your expense. Therefore, if your man is too jealous, this does not mean his love for you, but about his problems in relations with women.
4. Attitude towards you and other people
Observe your chosen one as he relates to other people. If you are always polite and friendly, and in communication with other people, he allows liberties, then this is an unkind sign. You think that he is crazy about you, so he treats you so well. But if he allows himself to yell at the waiter, says nasty things about friends when they are not nearby, refuses to help relatives, do not flatter yourself. The same fate awaits you. Maybe he is in love with you, but as soon as you get closer, his attitude will change. These are the type of men, and it’s best to stay away from them. A normal man in love will be kind to you, but he is friendly with other people.
3. Parting
If everything is not going smoothly in your relationship, and you decide to leave for a while, look at the man’s behavior. It tells a lot. Real feelings during parting only escalate. If you are dear to your chosen one, he will make attempts to return you. You yourself will be able to understand whether the person next to you that you really need. If he soon finds a replacement for you, then one more, and then another, and only then decides to return to you, do not accept it. Surely, you cannot forgive him for treason, and if you can, then you will not forget about her. Relationships will never be the same. If you want to specifically provoke a breakup to test the feelings of a partner, leave this venture. It may not end as happily as you expect.
2. Help in a difficult situation
Your chosen one, if he really loves you, will always come to the rescue. He will support in a difficult situation, help with words, deeds and money. If in the difficult moments of your life, he disappears, stops calling and talking with you, this is not your person. When people love each other, they are always ready to sacrifice everything for each other, for them the highest manifestation of love is to help a loved one survive the troubles. If a man is concentrated only on his problems, and yours are not interested in him, then he does not love you. Or he is selfish. But you know that normal relations will not work in either case.
1. Does it remain with you?
In love, people open up, show those qualities that are closed to others. Your chosen one is a serious and responsible person, but when you are alone he is fooling around, laughing and capable of stupidity. He loves you, he is ready to show you himself real. He is set up for close communication, does not build any of himself. Appreciate it. If the partner is insincere, then you will immediately feel it. A man playing the role of a lover will sooner or later make a mistake.