If the girl once again tells her beloved that she does not want to get married at all, she is cunning. If you are also tormented by this question, a list of signs that will tell you that the man is not going to marry you will help you.
10. He does not hide that he is not going to marry
At the very beginning of the relationship, he said that he would never marry. His words did not hurt you. You did not attach importance to them. However, even now your chosen one repeats them periodically. If you still dream of trying on a wedding outfit, then at least it's stupid. You can fool yourself with thoughts that when he understands which woman next to him will change his point of view. Do not flatter yourself, will not change. If he ever marries, he will choose another woman. Men with serious intentions do not throw such statements, which means that he does not take you seriously.
9. Likes to often disappear
At the beginning of the relationship, he bombarded you with messages, called you at lunchtime, and you met every day. Recently, he began to disappear for a long time somewhere. He does not answer phone calls, SMS. In a personal meeting, he will laugh at your questions or snarl. This man is definitely not suitable for family life. If he rubs your nerves, he does not care about your feelings, what kind of marriage can we talk about? They don’t behave like that with a loved one. Perhaps he has a few more girlfriends.
8. Does not include you in the picture of your future.
Your chosen one loves to dream about the future, willingly shares his thoughts with you. But you are not in this cloudless future. He generally very rarely uses the pronoun "we". This is another direct evidence that the man does not intend to marry. But the girl will calm herself again. She will think that later he will change, settle down. If you have been dating for a long time, and you are still not in his plans, think about why you need such a relationship. If you do not perceive him as a future husband and are ready for the fact that your relationship will not last for a long time, you can meet him further. If this prospect does not suit you, then do not waste time on it.
7. Talks about married friends in a negative light.
He has married friends, but, according to him, there is nothing to envy here. All his stories about wives sawing them, require money, are forbidden to see friends. You immediately imagined that the wives of his friends were grumpy hysterical women. And of course they thought that you would never be like that. In fact, his friends are not so bad in family life, as your boyfriend says. He covers events from his point of view. In marriage, he sees only the negative side. If your chosen one is interested in getting married, he will also notice positive aspects: family walks, joint shopping trips, quiet cozy evenings.
6. Delays the acquaintance of you with his family and friends indefinitely
You have been dating for quite some time, but have not yet been introduced to either his relatives or friends. There is nothing to guess here, in the future he does not see himself next to you. Your relationship is a short-term project. He needs you for sex or for something else. If you are not indifferent to a man, he will want to introduce you to at least his friends. Getting to know your parents is already a very important step; it speaks of serious intentions. If none of this exists, he is not going to start a family with you.
5. Ignores your relatives
Unlike a guy who does not want to introduce you to his relatives, you are trying to introduce him to everyone. But he does not make contact and always shirks from acquaintances. No need to put pressure on him, beg or threaten to break the relationship. Even if he agrees, nothing good will come of it. You will gather relatives, set the table, at the appointed time, to find out that his grandmother got sick, stole a car, he needed help from a friend. And if you managed to introduce him to relatives, he still refuses to communicate with them.
4. Flirts with other girls in your presence
Your chosen one cannot live without flirting. He smiles and lets go of unequivocal jokes. Any pretty girl acts as an object. If a guy allows himself that, he’s definitely not going to marry you. Moreover, he does not respect you at all. In such situations, you are upset, but he does not attach any importance to this. Here another variant of the development of events is possible. Your man may be a don Juan. He has such a manner of communication with all women, but you know that after the wedding his behavior will not change. Think about whether you need such a husband.
3. He avoids responsibility
Your boyfriend categorically refuses to take responsibility. This applies to any issues, household and financial, including. It seems that he is completely unfit for life. If you live together, you are probably playing the role of “mommy”. You will say that you are used to doing everything yourself, to make decisions alone. Why do you need a husband? Especially one that will not become your equal partner. He won’t want to marry for a long time, why does he need an extra headache? Most likely the fact is that you are not the woman for whom he wants to change himself, to become an adult and a responsible person.
2. Wedding theme annoys a guy
Your man treats you well, cares, makes gifts, calls him “the sun”. But once you start a conversation on a wedding theme, how does it turn into an angry lion. Such talk annoys him. He doesn’t want to hear about how your girlfriend got married. When the wedding procession passes by, he grins wryly and says: “Well, there’s more one more unhappy person, I’ll never agree to that.” You are unpleasant to listen to such words, because at heart you still hope for a positive outcome of events. If a man loves and is ready to associate his fate with a woman, he will agree to everything in order to please her. After all, often a man does not want a magnificent celebration, he would have had enough of a solemn ceremony in the registry office.
1. Illegal relationships are too long
Your relationship is approaching the first anniversary, and you are still dreaming of a white dress. Go down from heaven to earth. If your chosen one did not marry you in the first two years, it is unlikely that he will do it at all. If you live in a civil marriage, the chances are even less. A man is happy with everything, why complicate it. You yourself must decide whether you still live, but you stop dreaming and deceive yourself with a mythical marriage, or you are looking for another man.
If your boyfriend does not want to marry you, do not despair. So it's just not your person. Many stories are known when a man met a woman for a long time, and then they parted. Meeting another, he fled under the crown two months after meeting. If a man loves you, he will not pull for a long time and will offer you a hand and a heart.